Jill Made A Decision - SCENARIO:
Jill is a single woman who is living her best life. She has no children and a good job. She is dating two men Dale and Ben, they are bachelors. Dale is a very rich man, very well dress, has over 1.5 million dollars income because of his online business called “Help Me With My Computer” but very selfish and arrogant. On the other hand, Ben is handsome, soft spoken, doesn't have a lot of money. Ben works as a construction worker at UAL Construction. Jill likes both but she knows she can only have one because Jill is looking for a commitment. She knows that Dale can give her a great life, she doesn't have to work, she can focus on her online business therefore, Ben is sweet and she knows she will have to get a job to help out with the bills. Ben can't provide financially, it will be a struggle because he has a lot of debt he owes.
One night Jill is laying in her bed thinking that she has to choose one of the guys. She didn't want to hurt them but she knows she has to make a choice. All of a sudden, she jumps out of her bed and shouts “I KNOW WHAT I AM GOING TO DO.” The next day, Jill is super excited and she calls Dale. Dale answers the phone, “Hey Babe, How are you today?” Jill replies back, “I am fine, I would love for you to come over tonight, I'm cooking dinner. Can you come over tonight?” Dale is quiet for approximately 5 minutes and says, “Yes, I guess. What time?” Jill is wondering why he waited so long to answer but she is happy and says “8:00pm sharp.” As soon as they hung up the phone, Jill walks in the kitchen begins to cook dinner. She cooks Dale favorite meat “steak.” After she finished cooking she looks at the time and it’s getting late. She is hurrying to get dress. After she is dressed she sits on the edge of her bed in her bedroom and waits for Dale. Time is passing by and the food is getting cold. Jill is so upset. She looks out the window no Dale. Three hours went by and Dale pulls up in her driveway. She walks outside to meet him. Dale walks to Jill and kiss her on the cheek. They walks in the apartment. Jill warms their food and eats dinner. As they are eating dinner Jill sees Dale looking at his watch. After dinner they go in the livingroom to watch a movie. They sat down and Jill says, “Dale, before we watch this movie. There is something I want to say. I really, really like you. I want to take this relationship to another level. We have been seeing each other for a year and now, I want to make it official. I want to be your girl.” Dale wasn't really listening to Jill. His eyes is wandering around the room and checking his watch. Dale looks at Jill with a blank stare and says, “That sounds nice. Um, we will see. Well, I have to go and Jill I like you too.” He stands up and kiss Jill on the forehead and walks out. Jill is puzzled and confused because she thought that Dale wanted her. Dales pulls out Jill's driveway and leaves.
The next day Jill calls Ben. “Hey, Honey I would like to know if you can meet me at the Mountain Park today around 2:00pm,” says Jill. Ben is smiling on the other end of the phone and replies back, “Yes, Of course, I would love to meet with you today.” Jill is happy and they hang up. Jill prepares herself to go to the park. Finally, she reaches the park and finds a bench near a river. Jill sits down and looks at her watch, it is 1:58pm and when she lifts her head up Ben is standing in front of her with a pink rose. Jill stands up and Ben gives her a soft kiss on the lips. Jill starts to blush and she is getting butterflies in her stomach. They both sits down and Jill tells Ben she has to tell him something. Jill says, “Look, Sweetie I really like you and I want to be with you. I know things are hard for you right now but I am willing to help. As long as I am with you.” Jill can see that Ben is listening to every word. She can see the passion in his eyes. She already read his eyes before he could speak to her. Jill is tearing up because she feels Ben love for her. Ben's eyes is getting watery and says, “Babe, you are making me a happy man. I am so ready to settle down with you. I want to make you my wife one day. I love you and I am willing to work two jobs to make you happy.” Jill automatically knew that Ben is the man for her. She read his eyes and knew every word he said is true. She pulls Ben close to her and gives him a big kiss. They leave the park and goes to Jill’s apartment and had a wonderful night.
The next morning they were laying in bed holding each other and Jill gets a phone call from Dale. Jill answers, “Hey Dale, What's up?” Dale is clueless why Jill is speaking to him like that and replies back, “Hey Sweetie, I want to come over to see you today.” Jill didn't say anything back because she is kissing Ben. Dale is getting impatient and yells, “DID YOU HEAR ME?” Jill laughs and says, “Actually, I didn't hear you, I am too busy kissing the man who truly loves me. So, I will talk to you whenever, I see you around.” Jill's hangs up the phone and goes back kissing on Ben. Meanwhile, Dale is holding the phone in his hand in shock. Ben and Jill is happy and having a wonderful relationship. Dale is still in shock because he never been rejected.
If your partner is looking deeply and comfortably into your eyes, it communicates a lot about their desire. “Eye contact is an intimate and vulnerable act, so intense eye contact can be very meaningful,” says Fraley. “Deep eye contact, or holding your gaze for at least four seconds, may indicate feelings of love.”
*Looking to Their Right = Auditory Thought (remembering a song)
*Looking to Their Left = Visual Thought (remembering the color of a dress)
*Looking Down to Their Right=Someone creating a feeling or sensory memory (thinking what it would be like to swim in jello).
*Looking Down to Their Left =Someone talking to themself
It might not be possible to read a person's exact thoughts from just looking at their eyes. This is great because from the perspective of the observed, the privacy of thoughts is maintained. But eyes tell us much more than we sometimes assume and our eyes, unlike our mouths, cannot lie.
When you want to know if a person is sincere look into their eyes. Eyes cannot lie. A person's eyes speaks louder than words. Take a moment and read a person through their eyes. You will get your answer.