Lisa wants a man like her father ...

LISA WILL NOT SETTLE ❤

Lisa knows what she wants -SCENARIO:

Lisa was raised in Manhattan, New York with her mother and father. She grow up with the love and respect that her parents have for each other. Her father always told Lisa, when she gets older always choose a man who is going to love you unconditionally. He will understand you, cherish you, love you and respect you. Lisa always kept that in her head. Since Lisa was little girl she always seen how her father treats her mother. Her father would go to the moon and back for her mother.

As Lisa is getting much older she constantly tells herself, she is going to find a man just like her father. Her father made a huge impact on Lisa's life. Lisa wants to have a healthy relationship just like her parents.

When Lisa turned 21 yrs old, she decides to move on her own and start her own life. Her parents knows that Lisa will be fine. Lisa is a strong, confident, independent woman and she knows exactly what she wants in life. Lisa moves to New York, NY, not to far from her parents. She finds an apartment and a job as a waitress at a beautiful restaurant. Lisa feels good about the progress she has made so far for herself.

The next day Lisa has to get ready for her new journey and her new job, she is so excited. After Lisa finished getting dress she heads to work, lucky for Lisa her job is around the corner, not to far from her new apartment. When she walks in the restaurant Lisa finds the manager. "Hey, I am Lisa. I suppose to start work today," says Lisa. The manager smiles and replies back, “hey Lisa, I am Chad. It's a pleasure meeting you and yes, I have you on my schedule for today." As Chad is talking Lisa keeps staring at Chad, she couldn't believe her eyes. Chad is tall, handsome and has the most beautiful smile. Chad is still talking to Lisa but she didn't hear him at all she is so amazed by how handsome Chad is. Chad notices that Lisa is staring at him and he gently touches her on the shoulders and says, "Lisa..Lisa are you okay." Lisa realizes what is happening and she replies back, "yes, I am fine. Where do you want me to go?" Chad smiles and says, "at that first table were the couple is seating and if you need any help just ask me." Lisa shakes her head okay and went to work. All day Lisa keeps watching Chad and daydreaming about him. Lisa knows that she couldn't date Chad because he is her manager. After her shift was over Lisa clocks out and gets her things together to leave. As she is about to walk out Chad immediately walks to her and politely says, "Lisa, you did a great job today and I am looking forward to working with you." Lisa didn't know what to say she is stunned so she just smiles and walks out the door. When Lisa got to her apartment all she could think about is Chad. She couldn't wait for the next day to see Chad again.

As months passes Lisa and Chad gets very close. Then one night before the restaurant closes Chad pulls Lisa close to him and says, "Lisa I have been liking you for a long time ever since I first seen you. I want you to be my queen, my best friend, my love of my life and I promise, I will treat you like a woman should be treated. I will give you all the love a woman should need. I will respect you, love you, understand you, cherish you and love you unconditionally." Lisa didn't know what to say this is a dream come true. This is what Lisa has been waiting for. All Lisa could think about is what her father had told her before she left her parents home. Lisa starts to cry and she is very emotional. She tells Chad, "oh my GOD, I have been waiting for this moment for a while and I am super happy that you said this to me. I wanted to tell you how I feel months ago but I didn't know the right time to do it. Chad, I love you and I want to be with you for the rest of my life." Tears starts to roll down Chad's eyes and Chad pulls Lisa closer to him and kisses her. After they kissed Chad closes the restaurant and tells Lisa, "I love you too." Lisa and Chad left the restaurant and goes to Lisa's apartment. Chad is the man Lisa has been waiting for. She wanted a man that gives her the genuine love that her father gives her mother. Chad is the perfect man. Lisa is very happy with her relationship with Chad. She knows that their relationship is healthy and is going to be everlasting. Lisa and Chad does get married and has a healthy baby boy name Anthony.

THE TRUTH:

Being in a healthy relationship you have to learn to respect and understand your partner.

Healthy relationships are best described as interdependent. Interdependence means you rely on each other for mutual support but still maintain your identity as a unique individual. In other words, your relationship is balanced. You know you have their approval and love, but your self-esteem doesn't depend on them.

Respect is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship. ... Respect means that you recognize that your partner is a whole person, and not just a way to get something that you want. It means that you know your partner has different experiences and opinions from you, and that's ok.

Positive and Healthy Relationships

*Accept and celebrate differences. ...

*Listen effectively. ...

*Give people your time. ...

*Develop your communication skills. ...

*Manage mobile technology. ...

*Learn to give and take feedback. ...

*Learn to trust more. ...

*Develop empathy.

CONCONCLUSION:

You have to learn how to respect your partner and understand your partner. Communication is one of the main keys towards a healthy relationship. If you can't find a partner who respects and understands you, its best for you to stay single. As they say, you can do bad by yourself. A healthy relationship is a healthy life.